Priorities

 I just read this article and it rings true!

https://aleteia.org/2019/01/23/sometimes-impatience-isnt-just-a-lack-of-virtue/

I do need to grow in virtue too, but very often, my impatience does stem from having unrealistic expectations for how much I can do in a day. Also not ordering my priorities rightly. Something to consider!

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